Amybear and I have different planning styles. She likes to get as much done up front as possible so there is less worrying to do later. I like to put off decisions for as long as possible so I can avoid making the same decision twice. (Oh the contracter you booked three months ago? He just canceled.) This is causing some conflict in wedding planning, but it is easily solved by me minding my own damn business.
It occurs to me that this same relationship, the woman plans and the man procrastinates, is exactly the same as what I see in my parents. I wonder, is this a man/woman thing or am I just turning into my father as I grow older?